Frequently Asked Questions
Here are some of the questions I'm often asked about my journey, my transplant, and the purpose behind this website. I hope my answers give you a little more understanding and perhaps a little hope, too.
What is this website about?
This is a space where I share my personal journey with lupus, kidney disease, dialysis, and kidney transplantation and the hope I found along the way.
Why did you create this website?
I created it to share my story, raise awarenesss, and remind others going through difficult seasons that they are not alone.
What happened to your kidneys?
My Lupus eventually affected my kidneys and led to kidney failure. After living through dialysis, I was blessed with the opportunity to receive a kidney transplant.
So... do you have three kidneys now?
Yes! My two original kidneys were left in place, and my sister's donated kidney was added in my lower abdomen. So, technically, I now have three kidneys but my transplanted kidney is the one doing the work my old kidneys could no longer do.
Can you live a normal life after a kidney transplant?
A transplant can allow many people to return to activities and routines they couldn't manage during a kidney failure, but also comes with lifelong care, medication, and regular check-ups. I am still learning what my new normal looks like.
When did you receive your transplant?
I received my kidney transplant on October 15, 2025
Are you a doctor or medical professional?
No. I am a kidney recipient sharing my personal experience. The information here is not substitute for a professional medical advice.
What does Second Chance mean to you?
It means more than just receiving a kidney. It means being given another opportunity to live, love, dream, and appreciate the ordinary moments of life.
Was finding a donor difficult?
Yes. Asking my siblings was not easy because I knew they have their own families and responsibilities. But when I asked, my sister she said yes without hesitation. Her willingness to become my donor and give me a second chance at life is something I will forever grateful for. Salamat nang.
Can you eat whatever you want after the transplant?
Not necessarily. Dietary needs can change after transplantation, and some foods may need to be limited or avoided depending on medication and individual health. I follow the advice of my medical team.
Do you still need medication after the transplant?
Yes. A tansplant does not mean a journey is completely over. I need life-long anti rejection medication and regular medical monitoring to help protect my transplanted kidney.
A Final Thought
My journey has taught me that life can change in ways we never expect.
I hope my story reminds you to hold on to hope, appreciate the little things, and never underestimate the gift of another day.
"Naa pa gyud ang paglaom"
There is still hope.